Dear Gentle Readers,
( I am surprised Chris has not gotten onto me for not starting my blogs with that salutation....)
1.
Last evening I was sent video concerning two Buna teens fighting at an area pizzeria.
It seems that the young ladies were fighting, allegedly over a boy....
Mom....Grandma......Sister.......Auntie......Cousins......You need to sit your teen girl down and talk to them about boys...There are a lot of sorry ones in my sex.
If a boy is playing both sides of the fence, he's running with two different , three different, 6 different girls....He's probably not boyfriend, much less husband material.
A lot of boys have the Pampers's Diaper Philosophy concerning females...." Use them and throw them out."
The same is true concerning girls. If you find out after you've been dating another girl for a while, just dating she is still looking around, boys, move on. Don't be friends, don't try and win her over, I believe dating someone is literally a trial run towards marriage, and if either wants to see other people, well, you are not " the one."
2.
I was informed originally by just one person about this situation. Now it is multiples.
A couple whom I taught, now married, and I always thought she was cute and very sweet.....Well, it seems he is bringing men over to have sex with his wife....While he watches and often acts as a videographer.
We are talking about one guy, up to several guys in a so-called " gangbang" situation....
When I first was told of it, well, I thought it was bull. Apparently not....
Man, just the idea of my wife sucking another man's pecker makes me ill. And it seems, he's really into his wife giving 'head' to the other guys, and she swallowing....He kissing her afterwards for the taste.....
Like than video meme...." Ewwww Brother.....Ewwwww....."
I always assumed, and apparently it doesn't always happen, which sort of surprises me, before marriage people discuss their past, and discuss what they expect in marriage, and Deb and I are close with a lot of stuff, we are unbelievably cheap, like to travel, have similar religious beliefs, and basically have two things that are a deal-breaker. What we called, " Don't beat, don't cheat." I don't even like to even be alone in a room with a female I am not related to. And make sure a door is open or there is giant plate glass window you can view the porch from.
I don't get these people whose spouse is "putting out" whenever they want, and that man...or woman strays for some " strange." I'm going to screw up my marriage, lose my kids, for that little blonde or Chad who leaves you as soon as your divorce is finalized.
3.
And this is the last time I will discuss this topic. ( I hope)
I am literally surprised at the number of messages I have received from folks concerning the school arrests. And the cases being dropped.
Perhaps the part that upsets people the most is the attention to Buna/Jasper County that the news media brought back to the county. 27 years ago the Byrd murder put Jasper County in a horrid light. The media made it seem everyone here was in the KKK. And well, in spite of what some people may think, they're not. It was a Jasper County jury who put the Byrd murderers on death row. Say what you want to, Billy saved the county from a lot of blow-back. Someone needs to do their PhD dissertation in Political Science on the moves he made during that time, and yes, not everyone in the county was pleased, but dadgum, his moves were brilliant.
You can find people who think that same way in Boston, or Minnesota, or Portland, Oregon. You REALLY want to see racists, go to Boston, not only do they hate black people, they hate white people from the South. Trust me, I've been to Boston. And Providence, Rhode Island......
And my messages are split of the situation.....Including one person who wrote me concerning the situation who said, " Where do the ladies go to get their name back since the charges are now dropped. Will national media express that?"
And then there were people upset that charges were dropped. And they blame the judiciary.
Now, as I have said in the past, when I am with non-Southerners, I will play up my accent, then throw them a curve ball with complicated Latin phrases. " How you like that you Yankee Mother-scratcher?"
I don't want to them to think we are all uneducated hillbillies.I wanted my students to KNOW they were just as smart as the kids next to them in college from some fancy rich school. I want them to be better prepared and I worked hard to get you there. It just didn't "happen" on my end of the classroom. You were just as bright, and I wanted you to realize that....
Historically, this area was full of people running from something. I know looking into my family past, ( 1800s) there were people wanted for murder in another state hiding on the Orange/Jasper County line. It's why they came here. Heck, some of the family is still there, and others of us, well, we are not far away. And the area right across the Sabine from us, was known as " No Man's Land." ( The older generation of people, my parents and grandparents would not talk about our family history. I even have cousins who will not....I on the other hand openly discuss it. But, I have a history background.)
That said, sometimes stuff is for us, the as the English would say, needs to be passed through the community off the " Bush-Wire." Kept local....It's not for the outside world. When folks from Maryland, Oregon, Florida are talking about, and I hear about it in Alaska. I spent my entire career, as I said talking up Buna alone, and I am convinced it once again, y'all are good folks, but sometimes one event, well.....It's not a Chamber of Commerce moment.
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