Okay Buna Folks

 I have calmed down a bit since yesterday. 

I need to start turning down more people who ask me to marry them. 

No, not going totally out of the celebrant " business." I don't for whatever you think it is worth . 

I just need to be more selective. Too some of  y'all want to marry and have a boyfriend, girlfriend, perhaps one of each, several, after you marry. 

I know some of you are not sure if you're the dad, or you have a choice of 2-3, perhaps more guys who could be the father. And one may or may not be the present husband. Meanwhile, he's married to you and has gotten a girlfriend, mistress, another man's wife pregnant, or at least there is a possibility....and the husband may or may not know. And if he knows, he may not care. And often, there is a fear of a DNA test. I was told by someone in the know, often because, the two suspected fathers, might not be the father in the end. 

I am surprised at the people in church who have ' open' marriages, and often, the wife files for divorce because the husband finds a better " girlfriend"/" mistress" to carry on with. Never mind the wife has her own boyfriend. 

And some of the birth control some of you use. Won't use birth control because it effects you physically. Or won't use condoms because they " don't feel right." Or use the old " pull and pray" method. And you know what these people are called?

" Mommy and Daddy "

And then, are you testing for STDs? Or are you afraid your family doctor might think less of you? 

Some of these STDs can't be cured. 

Right now, I'm not physically able to do a wedding. 

And some of you, I know are getting married in the future, and I have you down for the future. Whenever that may be. 

But some of you, well, I need say " No."