Happy to Do It

I'm generally happy to help you in anyway I can. Be a reference on an application. Give you some sort of advice, and well, sometimes it might be good...or not so good. But I will try to tell you the truth about stuff.

And of course I am more than glad to marry you.

It is strange, I am booked for October, and not a wedding in June. You never know. ( I have one in October I am thrilled to be performing)

So, I have a wedding a couple of weeks from now in March, or at least, I thought that I did.

The groom had asked me months ago to do the wedding, and because it was someone I know, it was a freebie. I as many of you know, don't understand the concept of a paid ministry, and I was one one time and felt " dirty" every paycheck. So, I got out. ( Remember how did St. Paul earn a living? Passing the plate? No, he made tents...)

Well, it seems the bride, whom I do not know, did not know, and well she has an uncle that is some sort of minister.

And that's fine.

I just wish they'd let me know a month ago, I tuned down a soiree that I can't get back.

I know this sounds ugly, but please check with your " to be" spouse who you ask to be you officiate is okay. ( Most of the time it is okay because, well, it just is.) ( And this goes for anyone you ask to officiate, not just me.)